Identity Found: Through His Lens

 Cancer sucks. A cancer diagnosis affects the entire family. It is not a walk any of us wanted, but here we are. Over the last five years, I have seen hundreds of people being treated at the oncologist’s office. I have walked along my daddy’s side and encouraged and supported him. I went to nearly all of his doctor’s appointments. When I couldn’t go, I had family members go in my place.Ive watched my daddy fight hard and try everything the oncologist suggested. Daddy is brave. I’ve watched my son love on his pawpaw and watched him face every situation. He has been a real blessing. He has treated my dad with kindness and compassion. I’ve watched him cry because the situation we are in is hard. Bryan is strong. I’ve also watched the people rally around us. People have called, cooked, and people have prayed. Our faith has helped us get to where we are now. Two very special little girls have prayed for my dad through this whole process. We call them his praying friends. They are kind. ...

 What do you consider your self to be good at? Are you a peacemaker, a good friend, or organized? I feel like God has made me an encourager. I seek ways to build others up. I like for others to hear the good things I see in them. Have you heard the saying, “You can’t pour from an empty cup”? Sometimes I struggle with speaking life over others because I am not doing enough self care. Other times, it is caused by other people doing or saying things that bring me down. Recently, I was in a situation where I was being paid a compliment, but the words chosen had the opposite effect. It took me about two weeks to work through how I felt about it. Encouragers also need encouragement. If you know your encouraging friend is struggling with things, send them a text, make a phone call, or send a card. It makes a huge difference.  Be careful with your words. The way you say things is important! I want you to know that you are amazing and I’m glad you are here! Be blessed!